What is cuckolding? This is a sexual fetish based on a man’s arousal when his woman has sexual relations with other men. Interracial cuckolding, which rapidly entered the media space a couple of decades ago, brings a special spice to relationships for some couples.
Erotic betrayal as a trigger for pleasure
Cuckolding itself is a hot fetish due to the breaking of many taboos, and interracial cuckold has gained some flavor in the western part of America.
About a fifth of men has a fantasy about watching their partner with another man. Cuckold women can enjoy cheating in different ways.
- some eroticize infidelity and get sexual pleasure from it;
- other men may be aroused by seeing their woman feel satisfied with another man;
- there are even those who get great pleasure from the fact that other men find their woman attractive and desirable.
In general, there can be many psychological reasons, but they all boil down to an element of masochism. The cuckold husband is first and foremost an observer who takes on a submissive, masochistic role. It brings him pleasure.
Such different treason
Cheating in cuckolding is part of the game. Many people may not understand why cheating would be fun for someone. Typically, cheating is associated with negative emotions, remorse and damage to relationships with a partner.
But in cuckolding, the entire process of playing with cheating is under the control of the couple. This brings pleasure from the game to both partners and subsequently does not lead to the breakdown of the marriage and negative emotions.
Psychologists also say that people who share their fantasies and bring them to life in their couple become more satisfied and happy in this relationship. Confidential conversations about your fantasies with your partner, and then realizing them together can be beneficial in a relationship.
When people are freed from the shame of their fantasy, it allows them to live easier. And when it comes to sexual relations, they can finally get what they wanted, but because of secret shame they could not do it before.
This is how cheating turns from a negative emotion into something exciting, with an element of play and pleasure for both partners.
How to share your cuckold fantasy with your partner?
An erotic fantasy can bring pleasure to both partners if it is brought to life with the mutual consent of both. Since cuckolding is a game that should bring joy to a relationship, both partners, a man and a woman, should want to do it.
We all know that society puts pressure on certain characteristics for each gender. A man should be courageous, a woman should be monogamous. Therefore, couples who choose cuckolding have enormous power within themselves to stop conforming to age-old traditions and start getting the pleasure they want.
Of course, to share your fantasy with your partner, you should be in a good mood, so the conversation takes place in calm tones.
The right time and setting for frank conversation is important. Since cuckolding involves a third person, the conversation should be started carefully, avoid harsh words and in no case should you put pressure on your partner.
Always remember that frank confession to your partner will make your relationship stronger and more trusting. And the fact that you share something intimate will ease your condition, remove fear or shame and other negative emotions from your life.
