No matter how much the media would want to love that this was the case, the enduring popularity of BDSM, bondage gear for sale, nobu toys for sale, and even lube for sale cannot be attributed entirely to the appearance of the Fifty Shades of Grey books and movie. Sadism and Masochism, Dominance and Submission, Bondage and Discipline are all activities that involve exchanges of power, and could comprise of sex or a deliberate and entire absence of it. And in case you never knew, such activities have been practiced for generations. Couples seem to be having a growing interest in the different adult toys for sale available at our Pleasures N’ Treasures store.
A lot of people who are starting out with bondage gears for sale feel they want to enjoy the excitement of having their mind and bodies controlled by another person, or being the person in control. They aspire to experience a play session in which they temporarily release themselves or control another in a relationship with a partner as a dominant or a submissive. It can play out either by they being submissive to the dominant partner or they being dominant over a submissive partner. All these activities are done for mutual pleasure and with mutual consent by both parties.
If you feel the pull to explore bondage gear for sale, then you would find this article helpful for the tips and advice. And taking this further is the question of identity. In other words, what do you identify as in the world of BDSM?
Are you a Top, Bottom, Switch, Submissive, or Dominant?
It is absolutely fine if you are not sure at the moment where to identify your likes in the entire Dominant/Submissive spectrum. This is true even though you may know from the beginning where to get bondage gear for sale or nobu toys for sale. You need to read up all you can on the internet about BDSM even if you know where to buy lube for sale. You can also discuss your intended journey with a partner so that you can both discover what you would both find appealing and not. By so doing, you would know whether you prefer to ‘assume the position, boss’ type, or ‘being in charge’ type.
Bottom = without necessarily identifying as a submissive you fulfill the position of the person giving over control to a Top or Dominant in a scene using bondage gear for sale
Top = without necessarily identifying as a Dominant you can fulfill the role of the one in charge of a scene in BDSM
Switch = here you identify as the person who enjoys being submissive or dominant with different play partners/in different situations/at different times
Submissive = here you identify as the person who gives over control to a Dominant in sessions or relationships of BDSM, mentally and/or physically
Dominant = here you identify as the person who takes charge and control in relationships and/or sessions of BDSM, mentally and/or physically
There are other methods of identification which exist in BDSM like sissy, DaddyDom, Master, Mistress, and so on.
All the activities listed above are performed with the complete and full consent of the individuals involved. In addition, both partners in a BDSM session and/or relationship must determine whether they want to make use of bondage gear for sale. For some of the activities, it would be advisable to purchase and use lube for sale so that the act itself can be pleasurable and devoid of discomfort.
